Why Pretty Girls Always Have A Group Of Pretty Friends?!

Posted by Kris | Friday, December 09, 2011 | , | 7 comments »

Hmm..I think this is question that is always on most people's mind but might not really give much thought in it. I don't think it is mere statistical coincidence that a pretty girls will have a group of pretty friends. Here is my take on the interesting question. (P.S I really like documentary/informative/explorative books like freakonomics, and books by Malcolm Gladwell)

1. They share the same common girly interests aka fashion, beauty wellness and make-up. Or even camwhoring :P Hence, they can easily click with each other and get along quite well since there is a lot of topics to share with each other. Women like to share their experience more than man.

2. Peer pressure. It is not surprise that make-up really do wonders to highlight a women's beauty and is possible to turn an ugly duckling into a swan. Hence the proverb, "There is no ugly women, only lazy women". So, if a person in a group suddenly gets the attentions of a lot of guys due to the proficiency of make-up & good dressing up manners, most likely that the rest of the girls will follow suit. Hence, creating a group of beautiful girls in a long term manner. You don't really want to be left out of the group and look awkward if you dress shaggily while your friends all dressed up nicely.

My point is that people that you mix around is very important in your personality & attitude development especially when you are very young and easily impressionable. When I was a kid, my mother used to tell me not to mix with "bad" friends. Well, being a kid, I don't really get it on why it is not good to be in touch with them once in a while. But as I got older and start to looking around , I understand the warning.

Friends are the people who have the highest probability of influencing you to do something and molding your attitude & personality in life regardless of age.

So in personal finance, if you have a group of friends who are financially savy, you will eventually be one too. If you have a group of friends who like to be splurging cash, then you will not be easily  financially free.

Advice for young people: If you want to succeed in life without "langgar tiang" lessons, find a few GOOD mentor to guide you in all manners of life so that you can learn from them and try avoid their mistakes.


  1. ChampDog // 5:36 PM  

    I usually have a mixture of many kinds of friend. It gives me different exposure by looking at different perspective.

    I think the hardest part is looking the one to be your mentor and I think that should be the most effective one.

    However, I hardly find one because I can't maintain the long term relationship. So it always ends up by myself.

  2. ChampDog // 5:38 PM  

    Btw, I love your picture of girls especially the first picture. You make me hard to not to comment about it. :) lol

  3. Kris // 5:44 PM  

    It is true that it is hard to find a good mentor. So another way is to mix with a wide circle of people/friends. Nevertheless, that needs some effort and time too.

    In terms of friendship relationship, it is easier to maintained with people with the same sex as you. For example, it maybe awkward to continue a close relationship with a female friend when she is going to get married, etc. Or, the problem may come with your future partner whom can be easily infuriated with jealousy :P

  4. ChampDog // 5:51 PM  

    You have that problem? Close friendship with different sex? lol :) I have that problem before but it ends up the close one become no longer that close.

    I think the solution to this problem is to make your closed friend to be closed with your partner, then it will solve the problem. I think so, theoretically.

  5. Kris // 9:39 PM  

    I agree with you. To add further, need to make sure that you also close with her partner also.

  6. Kris // 9:44 PM  

    It took me some time to search for the photos. I usually see these type of photos from time to time.

    This is the irony where when you want to find something, it is so damn hard to find it. If you don't want to find it, you always see it.

    So moral of the story, if a person see a girl (stranger) that you want to interested, go ahead and ask for her contact. Must seize the day and opportunity!! Carpe Diem! :P

  7. Happy walker // 9:42 AM  

    agree too! LOL!